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THE WORLD IS A CARPET - A WOMAN'S JOURNEY IN AFGHANISTAN

June 5, 2013

by Humaira 

I am hooked on Facebook .  I have met some cool people through FB who I would have never met otherwise.  Anna Badkhen is one of those people.  Anna has authored four books, and writes for the New York Times, The New Republic, Foreign Policy, the Boston Globe, and others.

She reports on people in extremis which has landed her in the Middle East, Central Asia, East Africa, her native Russia and the Caucasus.   She has been reporting on Afghanistan for over a decade. Last week, Penguin Books released her latest book, The World is a Carpet: Four Season in an Afghan Village.  I was lucky enough to get an advance copy.

As you might imagine I constantly read about Afghanistan, but Anna’s book exposed me to an Afghanistan that not many have written about before.  Anna weaves in Persian poetry, history, sex and at times humor to engage the reader in this world which she personally experienced.  Anna spent four seasons in northern Afghanistan visiting a remote rural Turkoman village, which is exactly how long it takes one woman, Thawra, to make a carpet. Anna chronicles the difficult lives of Baba Nazar, Thawra her sex obsessed husband Amanullah, and other colorful characters in an opium infested village where time has stood still for centuries.

I had the opportunity to ask Anna a few questions, which I hope will give you some insight into the mind of this prolific writer who compassionately shares stories of people who are far from our reality.

Interview

with Anna Badkhen, author of The World is a Carpet: Four

Season in an Afghan Village

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Humaira: Do you have an Afghan carpet?

Anna: I don’t have an Afghan carpet: I’m not a big collector of things. If I were to own one I probably couldn’t ever look at it as an objet d’art, let alone a household object. I would think of the history of the Afghan carpet—prehistoric artisans upon these plains were spinning wool and plaiting it into mats as early as seven thousand years ago, and Alexander the Great, who marched through the Khorasan in 327 b.c., is said to have sent his mother, Olympias, a carpet as a souvenir from the defeated Balkh—and also of the history of the carpet in my possession: who wove it? Was she healthy? Was she happy with her marriage? How many children did she lose to disease or malnutrition while she was at the loom? It would become too intimate, almost painfully so.

Humaira: What do you think makes the various types of carpets woven in Central Asia different from an Afghan carpet?

Anna: There are many kinds of Afghan carpets, but those woven by the Turkomans are the most valued. For their rich palette of reds—mahogany, terracotta, liver, and the atrorubent of the fratricidal blood that soaks their land—the Turkomans are called the Rembrandts of weaving. Marco Polo, in the thirteenth century, lauded Turkoman weavers for producing “the best and handsomest carpets in the world.” Six hundred years later, Francis Henry Bennett Skrine, a retired commissioner of the Indian Civil Service, and the London linguist Sir Edward Denison Ross wrote that Turkoman carpets were “unrivalled in Asia for beauty and durability.”

Humaira: Do you have a favorite Afghan dish or two?

Anna: Mantoo. The incredible paisleys in which the three sauces—the yogurt, the chickpeas, and the tomato sauce—feather around the dumplings. I remember the first time I helped prepare mantoo, in the house where I was staying in Mazar-e-Sharif: four women at the counter, preparing lunch for forty. At first, the other women watched me very suspiciously: were my untrained fingers a match for the filigreed, stuffed beauties they were making? After my second mantoo, they said: “Good, you can do this,” and stopped watching. I felt as though I had been accepted into a tribe.

Humaira: What did the people of Oqa make for a wedding celebration? (Note: There is a great wedding scene in the book which I really enjoyed reading.)

Anna: In Oqa, the wedding meal was palau. It was a poor man’s wedding, so the palau was simple: onions, lamb, and rice. The chef cooked it in an enormous cast iron vat he had lowered into a dugout fire pit at the edge of the village. He stirred it with a shovel. After a village elder seasoned the rice with salt, the chef’s apprentices laid serving trays upside down to cover the rice, spread a bed sheet on top of that, covered it with patu blankets, and then with a black tarp. They tucked in the blankets with their fingertips and patted them down with the flats of their palms. The way a mother might tuck in a child.

Humaira: Do you cook for your son? Has he tried Afghan food?

Anna: Definitely—lobia or red beans is a staple, as is borani kaddo, stewed pumpkin with yogurt and garlic sauce. Lamb korma, sometimes. Firni, the dessert pudding. We eat a lot of rice at home, and I season it with the Badakhshani cumin my Mazari host mother gave me. Bamya, the okra stew with tomato sauce. Mantoo is very labor-intensive, but I did prepare it once (I cheated and used wonton wrappers instead of making my own dough). My son loved it of course. Who wouldn’t?

Humaira: Did Afghans treat you differently when they found out your were born in the former Soviet Union?

Anna: I was born in the Soviet Union, and carry an American passport. So one could say I represented two occupying powers. But in twelve years of traveling to Afghanistan I never have experienced distrust. I am very fortunate. Instead, I met a lot of Afghans who had studied in the Soviet Union and wanted to practice their Russian. I met a lot of Afghans who wanted to know more about the United States. When I first came to Oqa, in 2010, the introductions went like this: “This is Anna, she is an American journalist. This is Baba Nazar, he is a hunter.” And Baba Nazar said, “welcome,” and I said, “thank you,” and he took me inside his mud-and-straw home so I could meet his wife and son and daughter-in-law and grandchildren. In Afghanistan, this is how you welcome a stranger.

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FaribaHerat on a horse carriage

FaribaHerat on a horse carriage

NOT YOUR TYPICAL AFGHAN WOMAN - TEDX MONTEREY

May 23, 2013

Fariba Nawa in Afghanistan

By Humaira

I often find that people are surprised when I tell them I am Afghan. I don’t fit their stereotype of Afghan women.Afghan women are often portrayed as weak, tormented, uneducated, burka clad and in need of being rescued. In this post I am profiling an Afghan women who is far from this western profile.  

I met Fariba Nawa at an event at the San Francisco Library; she immediately caught my attention among the female panelists. She was articulate, super smart and clearly knowledgeable about Afghanistan. Also, she is a natural blond, not your typical Afghan woman. We became fast friends through our common interest in Afghanistan and our roles as mother of two daughters. Well, when we met she had only one daughter.  

Fariba lives in the Bay Area and donates her time to various causes supporting Afghanistan. She is an Afghan-American award-winning journalist and author of must read Opium Nation: Child Brides, Drug Lords and One Woman’s Journey through Afghanistan.

Recently Fariba spoke at TedX Monterey. She eloquently tell the story of her family's resettlement in the United States and the challenges of living in two words as an exile. I encourage you to get a cup of tea and watch this talk:

FaribaSiwa, Egypt

FaribaSiwa, Egypt

Fariba and her guide in Siwa, Egypt while reporting in the Middle East.

Guest blogger: Fariba Nawa

My former housekeeper, “Mojabeen, “ is one of the Afghans who inspire me to be hopeful about Afghanistan’s future. She’s 25 and has four sons now. She recently called me when I was in Washington DC, after seeing my appearance on Voice of America television. She wanted to congratulate me on the publication of my book Opium Nation: Child Brides, Drug Lords and One Woman’s Journey through Afghanistan. I beamed because when I first met her five years ago, she didn’t even know how to hold a cell phone. Here’s a story I wrote about her in 2007 when I still lived in Kabul.

FaribaQalai Bost, Helmand

FaribaQalai Bost, Helmand

KABUL – The only sound that I look forward to hearing in the morning is the jingle of Mojabeen’s fake gold bangles. When I open my eyes from sleep, that’s how I know that she’s downstairs cleaning our dusty house and that as soon as she hears me call, she’ll come upstairs smiling, with my breakfast and her lively conversation.

She never takes off her dozen bangles or her scarf, which she wraps around her ears to make sure her hair is safely covered. About five feet tall in pink plastic sandals, she’s thin and pale beneath the long, loose dresses she wears, but she’s stronger than she looks.

Mojabeen is my 21-year-old housekeeper and cook and the person I spend the most time with in Kabul. I work from my home while my husband goes to the office. In the past four months, Mojabeen and I have formed a bond and trust that has broken the barriers of class and culture. We’ve learned about each other’s worlds and become friends. She’s an illiterate village girl who’s rapidly urbanizing, and I’m a Western-educated Afghan-American appreciating her resilience and strength. But it would be unfair of me to compare my comfortable life to her troubled one.

When she was 6 months old, in a remote village in the north of Afghanistan, Mojabeen was betrothed to a deaf and mute man. That man’s sister was promised to Mojabeen’s brother, Ahmed. It was an exchange common in Afghanistan – it avoids the cost of dowries. Mojabeen’s brother married the girl, but Mojabeen’s fiancé went away to work in Iran as a laborer. She dreaded her marriage to the man, who she’d never even talked to.

“I only saw him once through my burqa on the street when I was walking to my cousin’s house, and my heart fell. He was unattractive, and I wondered if my fate was forever sealed,” she told me as she hung our laundry.

Mojabeen’s father had passed away and her oldest brother, Tarek, was in charge of family affairs. There had been no ceremony or religious event to bind Mojabeen’s union with the deaf-mute laborer, so in the fiancé’s absence her brother gave his 17-year-old sister’s hand to another man – Mahmood, who had no idea that she was already engaged.

Mojabeen and Mahmood, a warm and open-minded farmer, made a life in their village and had a son. She was happy to be with her husband, but she dreaded the laborer’s return.  After 15 months, the laborer came back and took Mahmood to court to get Mojabeen as his wife. Because he was only engaged to Mojabeen, the man had no case under Afghan law. But Mojabeen and Mahmood say the man’s family bribed the judge to order their marriage and their son illegitimate. Mahmood was thrown in jail, and Mojabeen’s family hid her.

Mahmood spent 4 months in the local district prison with three murderers. One day, the four prisoners found a small iron rod and dug a hole through the prison wall and escaped. Mahmood picked up his wife and son, who was four months old, and headed to the mountains to hide. For two years, the three of them lived among strangers in villages nestled against hills where people live on wheat and barley farming. “We’re Tajiks, but it was Hazaras and Uzbeks who took us in and provided us shelter,” Mojabeen said.

Mahmood was often unemployed, but he would find odd jobs to survive. Mojabeen had another son and nearly died in childbirth because there was little medical help in that remote area. It filled Mojabeen with fear that she’d die, leaving her children orphans. Her oldest brother Tarek and Mahmood’s sister had moved to Kabul and they encouraged the couple to join them in the bustling capital where the police from their district did not have the power to capture them.

They settled in with Tarek, his wife, and their two small sons in the servant quarters of my friend Sarah’s house. Not long after Mojabeen arrived in Kabul, I called Sarah asking if she knew a trustworthy housekeeper. Mojabeen considers our meeting a turn of fortune in her life.

She works eight-hour days, five days a week, and goes home for lunch to breast-feed her younger son. It’s the first time she’s earned money – $150 a month. Mahmood stays home to take care of the children – unusual for an illiterate Afghan family in which patriarchy calls for men to work outside and women to play the caregivers. But Mojabeen and Mahmood are eager to modernize.

Mojabeen wears the burqa on her short walk to my house. But one simmering day when I took her shopping, she sheepishly asked if it was all right if she wore just her scarf. I smiled and said it was up to her. I wear a long shirt, jeans, and a sheer scarf in public. She still hasn’t given up the tent like blue garment completely. She dons it when she walks home, fearing her brother’s disapproval.

Mojabeen is also learning about food and appliances. For one dinner, I gave her a bag with a head of lettuce and spinach and told her to cook the spinach. She cooked both because she’d never seen lettuce before. Also she didn’t know the difference between the refrigerator and the freezer, so she twice put lettuce in the freezer, not understanding why it froze. When I explained the difference, we both had a good laugh.

I offered to teach her how to read and write in Dari, and she was thrilled. I got her a literacy-for-adults book, a notebook, and pencils. She put them in a plastic bag, and every day after her chores, she brings the bag, enthusiastic about her next lesson. So far, she has learned the alphabet, her numbers, and how to use a cellphone.

 But things between us aren’t always rosy. She often brings her 3-year-old with her to work, and one morning I noticed that his eyes were red and he was unusually quiet. She told me that Mahmood had beaten him with a stick. I pulled up his shirt and saw red marks across his tiny back. I’d also seen Mojabeen slap his face for breaking something. I told her I have no right to tell her how to rear her children, but I do have the right to fire her. Both seem to have stopped abusing their boys.

Mojabeen has taught me about resilience and patience. I moved back to my homeland from the US after the fall of the Taliban at a time of great hope for peace only to witness growing instability, violence, and dissipating hope. Yet, it’s Afghans like Mojabeen who remind me of why I returned.

Our nikah (wedding) in Kabul at our Taimani home in 2007

Our nikah (wedding) in Kabul at our Taimani home in 2007

Fariba and her husband with sad faces infront of the destroyed statue in Bamiyan

Fariba and her husband with sad faces infront of the destroyed statue in Bamiyan

Fariba and her family, Naeem, Fariba, Andisha (9 months) and Bonoo (4 years) in Palo Alto - 2012

Fariba and her family, Naeem, Fariba, Andisha (9 months) and Bonoo (4 years) in Palo Alto - 2012

Note: This article was originally published on September 4, 2007 in The Christian Science Monitor. The original article, “An Afghan village girl blossoms in the city” has been edited for this post.  The housekeeper profiled in this story is wanted by authorities in her village for running away from a betrothal made when she was 6 months old. For security reasons, the names in the article have been changed.

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Laghataq

Laghataq

CREAMY AFGHAN EGGPLANT DIP - LAGHATAQ

May 16, 2013

By Humaira

On mother’s day I was telling Jeja, my mom, about an Afghan dinner party I hosted.  She always wants to know the menu.  Followed by a long discussion about whether there were enough dishes served.  To change the subject, I told her about the eggplant dip I invented for an appetizer and then described it to her. She frowned and then said, “That is Laghataq, one of your grandfather’s favorite dishes.” It goes to show you that everything has been done before and there are no new inventions.

This is the perfect dish to share or take to a potluck.  You can make it several days in advance and I find that everyone loves it, inculding children. Since I have been asked for this recipe many times, I finally hunkered down and wrote the ingredients down.  Warning! This dish uses a good amount of olive oil.  Don’t skimp on the oil since it adds flavor and creaminess to the dish.

I hope you enjoy this dish as much I do.

Eggplant&TomatoSauce

Eggplant&TomatoSauce

Creamy Afghan Eggplant Dip

Laghataq

Heat oven to 300 degree

One eggplant cut in ¼ inch disks

1 red bell pepper cut in thin strips

2 medium tomatoes, toughly chopped 

2 cloves garlic, pealed

1 15 oz. can tomato sauce

1/2 cup olive oil 

1 tbsp. tomato paste

1 tbsp. ground cumin

1 tbsp. ground coriander 

1 tsp. paprika

½ cup Greek yogurt or Lebni

pinch of garlic powder

1 tsp. salt

Pour two tablespoons of the olive oil on a cookie sheet and spread around with fingers.  Arrange the eggplant disks on the greased cookie sheet.  Place the tomatoes and red pepper on top of the eggplant. 

Eggplant,Tomatoes&Pepper

Eggplant,Tomatoes&Pepper

Add the following ingredients in a blender: garlic, tomato sauce, tomato paste, remaining olive oil, cumin, coriander, and paprika.  Blend until all the ingredients are mixed and the sauce is smooth.  Pour the sauce over the ingredients on the cookies sheet and make sure that it covers the eggplant.  Spread the sauce with a spoon over the eggplant to insure it is distributed evenly.

Bake for 1 ½ to 2 hours on 300 degrees. The baking time varies with each oven.  It is important to slow cook this dish in order for all the flavors of the ingredients to be absorbed by the eggplant.  To test done ness, press the eggplant and the peppers with the back of a fork, if the fork sinks in easily it is done. 

Let the eggplant cool for 1/2 hour before throwing all the ingredients in a food processor. Pulse three or four times, don’t over blend, make sure that you can see small chunks of the eggplant. Remove content and place in deep serving dish. The dip can  be served cold or at room temperature. I am dairy free, so I eat this dip with out yogurt but I must admit, it is more delicious with the yogurt topping. 

In a bowl mix the yogurt, salt and garlic powder until creamy.  Pour the yogurt sauce on top of the dip.  Serve with pita slices or pita chips.

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